Saturday, September 22, 2007

Jill Update 9/22/07

LINKS
Slideshow of the Race for the Cure weekend: http://ambersfamily.blogspot.com/mbersfamily.blogspot.com/
Race for the Cure website: http://rfctu.convio.net/site/TR?pg=entry&fr_id=1040

JILL UPDATE
Jill received her last chemo treatment this past Friday, 9/21/07. The oncologist could barely find the lump during this latest visit. Is that good news or what?! Also, she found a plastic surgeon she likes, and if all goes well, she will have the mastectomy in the middle of October. At that time, she'll have expanders inserted, and about 4 months later, those will be removed and implants inserted (fake boobs, a.k.a., foobs, as they are called by those in the know). She won't be able to lift anything >5 lbs. for 4 - 6 weeks after the first surgery, so she won't be able to handle Lainey during that time. Should be an interesting challenge to coordinate that!!

AMBER UPDATE
My ovarian ultrasound came back good. Next step is to get a CA-125 test that measures certain markers for ovarian cancer. I'll have a breast MRI next to create a baseline for future tests. I still don't know what I'm going to do but am getting these prelimiary tests to help make the decision. Hoping and praying that my aunts and cousins come up negative for the BRCA1 gene!

RACE FOR THE CURE
Right off the bat, we want to thank everyone sooooo much for participating and/or donating to the Race for the Cure held last weekend. In the beginning, we didn't expect much... maybe Jill's and Jerry's co-workers walking and a few donations from friends, but the end result was much more than expected! The Jogging for Jill team had >66 team members with a whopping $3375 in donations. The team finished 8th in overall team donations in all of Tulsa. There were over 9000 people who participated in Tulsa's event, so that's quite a testament to Jill's base of supporters. You feelin' the love, Jill? ;o) She and her team captain (Mandi Rivers) and spouses recently attended an award ceremony where the team was awarded a nice trophy for 'Largest New Team with the Highest Average Donation'.

We've known all along that family and friends were behind Jill and the fight against breast cancer but had no idea just how much. For a lot of us, I know crossing the finish line with 'her people' made us well up with emotion with the realization that so many people care about her and our entire family. Just emphasizes that we are all part of the same team... The team of people who hope and pray for Jill to whip cancer and who want to contribute to the research that will whip it for everyone else who gets it.

SPECIAL THANKS
** A very special thanks to Mandi Rivers who coordinated Jill's Race team. You and the Angus Valley staff really came through for her. Thank you.

** Top three fund raisers for the team are 1) Donna Dundee, $690, 2) Jill Stanfill, $530, and 3) Karen Cunningham, $260 (thanks for your efforts with the ice cream social). You guys are great!

** Also, a special thanks goes out to our Arizona family, including Aunt Mary, Cousin Jennifer and sons Conor and Finbar, who flew in for the Race and came bearing very thoughtful gifts that I know Jill has already used!

** Mom and Dad: You are the greatest as always, but thanks for getting the Jogging for Jill t-shirts for the team at such a low cost. We love you!


Love to all,

Amber

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PICS (There are so many good ones. Here are just a few. Please see the slideshow in the link above for more.)


Jill's Angus Family






Daughter Supporting Mom (Peyton and Jill)





Jill, Peyton, and Jerry







Lainey Supporting Mom with her Pink Ribbon Bow






Jill and Sis Amber "Ber"





Jill Update 9/22/07 - Video



Thursday, September 6, 2007

Jill Update 9/6/07

LINKS:
* Link to Summer '07 family pics on video (7 minutes, 39 seconds) AND Jill's Channel 6 interview (3 minutes, 37 seconds): http://ambersfamily.blogspot.com/
* Link to Race for the Cure: http://rfctu.convio.net/site/TR?pg=entry&fr_id=1040
NOTE: (Jill's team is currently 7th in the standings of all of Tulsa. Thank you all so much for participating and donating. Jill (and all our family) appreciates it more than you know. You can still walk with us or donate online if you like.)

JILL UPDATE:
All is going pretty well in Tulsa these days. Jill is going in for her 2nd to the last chemotherapy treatment tomorrow. Hoorah! Just when the "fun" is over, thoughts turn to surgery. Jill is going to have a double mastectomy and some time later undergo reconstruction. The dates of the surgeries are still up in the air, but the first (mastectomy) will likely happen before the year is out. Also not sure when the hysterectomy will happen, but maybe this year. Again, the reason she is having a double mastectomy and a hysterectomy is because the cancer is genetic. People with the mutated gene have a 70% chance of getting cancer in the other breast (IF they've got it in one breast) and a 40-60% chance of getting ovarian cancer, so it only makes sense to get it all taken care of.

Options for reconstruction include using your own fat from your abdomen to make new breasts or inserting implants. Since Jill does not have excess abdominal fat, she will have implants. (The one time being skinny is a disadvantage!) Although the details are not all worked out, likely she will have expanders inserted when she has the mastectomy. These are devices that are slowly pumped up to expand the existing skin to accommodate future implants. Let's pray for a good outcome and a quick recovery.

AMBER UPDATE:
Since I have the mutated gene as well, I am having some tests done. For women who have the gene, the course of action if they do not choose ovary or breast removal is described in this example: ovary ultrasound on January 1st and breast MRI (different than a regular MRI) on July 1st each year, with a mammogram in there somewhere. Of course, if the person chooses to have ovaries and/or breasts removed, they wouldn't have those corresponding tests. Jill's breast surgeon told me she wouldn't recommend a woman my age have a prophylactic (preventive) mastectomy but would recommend ovary removal by age 40. So what does that mean for me? I don't know yet. Big decisions - especially since I do not have kids yet. Ultimately, you have to do what is best for your own health. I've always thought I wanted kids, but I realize you are never out of options... From freezing eggs all the way up to adoption. I am just thankful that I now have information about myself that could prolong my life. That's the way you have to look at it.

Again, please give me, Jill, Mom, or Dad a call or email if you have questions about the genetic part of this (or anything else). Looking forward to seeing everyone at the Race!!!

Amber 918-810-7214
Jill 918-299-7768
Dad & Mom 918-968-3072

Love,

Amber


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PICS

Lainey Paige grinning (at Aunt Ber's morning hair?). She is much happier and sleeping better these days. Whew...



Peyton will kill me for this later, but aren't the tiny toilets cute?



Jill and Lainey





Summer 2007 - Family Pics

Here's a video of the Summer of '07 for the Quandel/Stanfill family. Watch Lainey's "birth" day, Peyton's first day of school, July 4th celebrations, the Lake Keystone vacation, and the Channel 6 interview pics (watch the actual video in the post below).

A few key moments to watch for... "My dreams came true, because of you", "Oh Daddy Dear you know you're still number one", and "Do the walk of life". Turn up the volume!

Songs:
"From This Moment", Shania Twain
"Girls Just Wanna Have Fun", Cyndi Lauper
"Walk of Life", Dire Straits



Enjoy...

Jill's Channel 6 Interview

The video is VERY large so I'm posting the link to YouTube. Jill did a great job, and Peyton is SOOOO cute, if I do say so myself.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lz7oauO__3Q